Flexibility

The most successful mediations are the most flexible ones

Litigation is based on deadlines and structure, but discussions towards settlement need to be able to breathe

After 20 years navigating litigation, I know rigid procedures rarely work for settling complex cases. I approach every mediation as a custom, bespoke human engagement based on the individuals involved, not a template

I don't impose rules or police your preparation. My process is designed to be radically agile and fluid

I offer complete flexibility on documents, focusing on the core issues you want to illustrate to me, rather than rigid deadlines

I conduct pre-mediation calls to proactively identify potential deadlocks, subtle power dynamics, and strong emotions. This preparation is key to building a constructive day and letting me tailor preparation

Send me a formal position statement or don’t - it’s up to you

All of this means I can pick up a case at shorter notice than many others - I don’t need a formal lead-in time. Got an urgent one? No problem, I love it

In mediation, processes need to be designed and invented on the spot, and positions can pivot in a heartbeat.  I’ll lead the conversation sometimes, react other times, and often look to interpret hidden meaning and adapt the process however it needs to be

Lawyers live by structures, authorities and timetables, but you can’t carry on a flexible and open ended settlement road with rigidity, tight deadlines for submitting documents, prescribed breaks, mandated joint sessions and timed speeches

I dedicate the entire day to your case and your client. We’ll work with an evolving, catalytic agenda, not a locked-down schedule

Between us, we’ll ensure all issues are aired and an outcome is found. We’ll work until a resolution is achieved or we all agree there‘s nothing left to try

And coffee, we’ll need lots of coffee. That’s a deal-breaker

I bring a safe harbour to confidentially resolve disputes, helping your clients find a better way forward than trial, at your offices, online, or in Cornwall

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